Marriage can be full of happiness and good memories, and the general consensus of divorce is pretty much the opposite. But Maryland couples that are going through a separation or are considering a divorce can rest assured that there are positives to going through with it. Even if the divorce gets a little messy at first, the end result can be that each spouse will have the chance to change their lives.
First thing to change is the body. Of course getting divorced can be stressful, and most of the time it can be understandably emotional for one or both of the parties involved. But with that stress comes an almost guaranteed weight loss. At first it probably will not be something that is enjoyable, but once the divorce is final, sleeping goes back to normal and the crying tends to stop. This is reportedly said to leave a more healthy and better looking body, probably because being happy makes it easier to take proper care of one's self.
Secondly, once the divorce proceedings are over and all the papers are signed, it will be time to clean house. Sure, vacuuming and keeping up with the dishes and laundry are cleaning, but after a divorce, the real house cleaning can begin. One of the two divorcing parties will have to move out and, whether one is moving into a new place or staying at the old, their belongings go with them. That means that both parties can get rid of anything they want to after everything is said and done without having to ask permission. It also means that they can each buy the furniture or appliances or decor that they want without having to okay it with their spouse and without any compromising.
Getting a divorce is almost always a difficult choice to make. Maryland marriages may not last forever, but at least there are some perks to getting a divorce. After all the emotions and stresses are set aside, a divorcee can get on with living their life the way they want to.
Source: The Huffington Post, Three Good Things About Your Otherwise Terrible Divorce, Christina Pesoli, Jan. 6, 2014