You and your partner have started disagreeing and arguing frequently. You have even talked about divorce. It just feels like the relationship is no longer working, and even little things are turning into big arguments – such as where you want to go out to eat or who is responsible for chores around the house.
Then, all of these disagreements seem to come to an end. You and your partner no longer fight. You may not feel as close as you used to, but you still take this as a good sign. It feels like you have gotten through the disagreements and you are getting farther away from divorce. But is this really what’s happening?
Divorce could be closer than ever
What actually may have happened is that your partner has already checked out of the relationship. They may not have filed for divorce yet or contacted a divorce attorney. But they have mentally decided that they are going to leave the marriage.
For them, this means that there is no longer any point in putting in the energy to try to win these arguments or disagreements. The reason that the conflicts have stopped is not that the relationship is getting better, but just that the other person already knows they are going to leave. It’s just a matter of time for them – and they may be trying to find the right time to file.
Your divorce options
If you are in this position, it’s very important that you understand all of your rights during a divorce. Carefully take the time to look into your legal options as the process moves forward.